How can managers reduce stress and prevent sickness?

Absences from work happen. There will always be times when staff are unable to attend work due to illness. You will never be able to stop absences from happening but it is possible to help minimise the negative effects that can lead to, cause and sustain staff absences that can stop an employee from returning to work at all.

According to research by AXA PPP healthcare, 23% of employees say they won’t tell their line manager the real reason for their absence when calling in sick because they’re afraid of being judged, with a further 15% saying they’re afraid they won’t be believed.

The way you deal with and respond to staff sickness as a manager can make a difference to how employees feel about work. As these statistics from the Office of National Statistics show, the number of absences is decreasing steadily over time – from 178 million days lost in 1993 to 131 million days lost in 2013 which could signal that the approaches to staff absences are improving.

When there is a negative approach to absences in the workplace, this can often lead to extended future absences. As a manager, it is wise to be supportive and considerate of an employee’s absence while ensuring you have the information you need to keep things running. For example, find out the reason for the absence and how long they’re likely to be off and finally find out what work will need to be picked up while they are absent. Listening and demonstrating understanding is key here.

Numerous short term absences can be disruptive to the day to day running of the workplace. Statistics collected by the Confederation of British Industry show that employees take on average 4-6 sick days a year. Logging absences will help you as a manager to spot problems and put the proper support in place and there a number of software packages available to help you do this. Absences like this can indicate serious issues with an individual or wider problems within your business. If you recognise a pattern it is important to raise this with the staff member.  A conversation is often enough to alert the staff member to any cause for concern you have about their behaviour.

Long-term sickness can affect your business in a different way to short term absences. It can be a difficult time for the staff member affected, not to mention you as their manager. In this instance it is important that you maintain a connection between the staff member and the organisation. Obviously, it is imperative that their duties are picked up to avoid any detrimental effect to the on-going productivity of the workplace, while also preparing for the staff members eventual return to work.

In the case of a long term absence from the workplace ensure the employee has given you a sick note from their doctor explaining their absence and the length of time they’re likely to be off. This should be logged with your payroll department so that the sickness can be monitored and budgets adjusted correctly.

When the staff member is ready to return to work it is important to make reasonable adjustments and provide them with the equipment to make sure they’re still able to do their job to the best of their ability. A phased return may also be an option whereby their return to work is a more gradual process. In this instance, it is best to meet with the employee before their return and plan on how best to approach their return to ensure both parties are happy with the arrangements.

Overall, there are simple ways to help prevent absences in the workplace. The most basic principle is to create a culture of openness and engagement. Lead by example, and ensure you establish clear goals and expectations for your team, so you are all working towards the same purpose. Making your staff feel valued and involved in your business will provide them with satisfaction and security in their jobs, and hopefully will persuade them away from taking numerous and unnecessary absences.

5 Tips for Managing People Who Don’t Like Managers

5 Tips for Managing People Who Don’t Like Managers

If everybody were the same, life would become dull pretty quickly. However, there are plenty of managers out there who wish they could pick and choose staff from a standardised ‘worker’ box. Barring complete automation of the workforce, this just isn’t going to happen.

Managers need to be able to handle all manner of people in order to get the results they, and their company, require. So, what do you do with those awkward souls who are supremely talented but see management as an authority to kick back against? You use the following five tips, that’s what! Let’s get started:

1) Put yourself in their shoes

Seeing things from the other party’s perspective may give you an insight into why they are so difficult to manage. Firstly, examine whether or not they have always acted in this way. Is it something that has started recently or have they always found authority difficult?

If it is a recent thing there may be an external factor causing the difficulties – it may even be your own management style! You need to be open and honest in order to work out what is happening here; it may not be the employee who needs to change.

2) Embrace conflict

Now this doesn’t mean you need to enjoy getting into squabbles with your staff, far from it, but you do need to make sure that you are addressing it in the right way. Conflict is inevitable in management; if the thought of it fills you with dread then you are likely in the wrong position.

Handling conflict in the right way means being fair and direct. Do not avoid it and definitely do not steamroller your way through it. Listen to the issues being presented and look for a constructive outcome that will resolve the problem at hand.

3) Make work goals laser focused

In order to remove any ambiguity that could result in a disagreement, it is important to set clear goals and objectives for your staff. Failing to do so leaves things open to misinterpretation and that could result in a member of staff feeling as though they are being poorly treated.

If your goals are clear-cut there is no room for argument, they’ve either been met or they haven’t. Setting proper targets for your staff lets them know where they stand and makes the job of evaluating their performance that much easier.

4) Know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em

Computers in Personnel can help with the recruitment process but it takes time to find out exactly how someone operates in the field, as it were. Regardless of their talent, staff still need to be able to listen and heed what they are being told to do. If someone is being overly problematic you will need to evaluate whether or not they are becoming a liability to the business as a whole. It doesn’t take long for discontent to spread in an office environment; so bad apples need to be rooted out as soon as possible.

However, this doesn’t mean behaving like a dictator either. It simply means that if a member of staff has been given a fair crack of the whip and still continues to cause problems, you have to assess their worth to the company.

5) Be aware that management is never plain sailing

My final tip is not so much one for handling others as much as it is one for handling oneself. Knowing that management is a tough job will give you a better perspective on the task at hand. Management isn’t easy, but that’s why you are getting paid more than your team. Simply being aware of this fact can lighten the load considerably and free you up to do what you do best, managing people.

Time to practice your close reading skills?

close readingI’ve joined a short on-line course from Sheffield University and Future Learn on the literature of the English country house. I’m sure the subject has been chosen with Downton House fans in mind. Simply, I thought it would keep me entertained on lovely, long, summer evenings.

The course started with a refresher on close reading and the lecturer chose a passage from Twelfth Night for us to work on. It’s a play I love and full of ambiguity. The action centres on the twins Viola and Sebastian, who are separated in a shipwreck. Viola (who is disguised as a boy) falls in love with Duke Orsino, who in turn is in love with the Countess Olivia. Upon meeting Viola, Countess Olivia falls in love with her thinking she is a man.

So, we practiced our close reading skills. First, we read the piece quickly for a general impression. Then, we read it a second time to confirm our first thoughts. This was followed by zooming in for key words and phrases that gave clues to the layers of meaning. It was an entertaining process, given Shakespeare’s propensity for hidden jokes and references.

I was left wondering about our obsession with speed reading. We prize how quickly we can scan the mass of text we encounter daily, be it in emails, discussion papers or reports. If we couldn’t scan quickly, we wouldn’t be able to cope at work or at home. But, we pay a price. I wonder, for example, how many corporate disasters might have been avoided, if we had the time to close read critical passages in progress reports on major programmes or to pick up the hints “between the lines” in management reports.

Have our senses and our judgment become numb from the volume of material put before us?

We need to be aware of the risk. There is a huge responsibility on authors and curators to flag up what they think are critical passages. But, at the end of the day, it is down to us and may be it is time to practice, practice, practice those close reading skills.

Wendy Smith is a personal coach and writer at Wisewolf Coaching. She is a qualified coach and a member of the Association for Coaching as well as being a member of the Institute of Consulting and a graduate of the Common Purpose leadership programme.  Wendy is author of “The WiseWolf Job Search Pocket Book: How to Win Jobs and Influence Recruiters” as well as two novels and a number of articles on management and well-being. Her latest publication is a little eBook; “How to Get on With the Boss.”  You can contact Wendy at wendy@wisewolfcoaching.com

Why HR has become a prime target for information technology

imagesThe basic tasks of human resources departments are similar in most organizations. Staff have to be recruited, evaluated and paid. Their welfare needs must be met and records need to be kept of both their performance and their development, as well as, for example, their sick absence. Track must be kept of personal histories, skills, capabilities, accomplishments and salary. All of this data needs to be analysed and turned into meaningful information if the organization is going to plan effectively for its workforce needs in the future.

These tasks require some pretty intensive administrative work – records need to be maintained and regularly updated and they have to be accurate. This has made HR a prime target for information technology and the development of human resource management systems

A Human Capital Management Solution, Human Resources Management System (HRMS) or Human Resources Information System (HRIS), integrates HR systems with information technology. What started out as relatively simple payroll systems have developed into sophisticated data management systems capable of vastly reducing the time and expense of HR administration. They have improved the quality of the HR contribution for employers, and for their employees, as well as freeing HR professionals to concentrate on the strategic interests of the organization.

The development of enablers like employee self-service tools from CIPHR  allow employees to query HR related data and perform some HR transactions over the system for themselves. This gives them a sense of ownership of the system and improves the quality and accuracy of data. Its appeal to workers can also help reduce the risk of losing corporate knowledge.

In the current global work environment, organisations need to have reliable and up-to-date information about the performance of their employees. They wish to reduce employee turnover and so retain scarce talent and the valuable knowledge held by their workforce. Recruiting new staff has a high cost and most new comers require at least a running in period before they become as effective as the person they replace. An effective HR information system supports the effective management and deployment of the workforce.

Wendy Smith is a personal coach and writer at Wisewolf Coaching. She is a qualified coach and a member of the Association for Coaching as well as being a member of the Institute of Consulting and a graduate of the Common Purpose leadership programme. She is the author of “The WiseWolf Job Search Pocket Book: How to Win Jobs and Influence Recruiters” as well as two novels and a number of articles on management and well-being. Her latest publication is a little eBook; “How to Get on With the Boss.”  You can contact Wendy at wendy@wisewolfcoaching.com

Your team and that unreasonable deadline!

bad-bosses1Are you a good manager? Let us assume you are a confident and competent professional interested in your staff as people. You want to do your very best to help your team succeed in the widest sense. That means not only helping them meet their immediate work goals but developing them beyond so they fulfil their potential. And, if they can, you want your team to feel happy in what they do.

Of course, life is rarely simple. And, certainly, life at work can get very complicated indeed. As the boss, even if you are a very good manager, you find yourself sometimes dealing with conflicted emotions. Suppose you know you have an unreasonable deadline to meet. You have done all you can to change the decision that led to the deadline. Despite that, it is there: it exists! You have to meet it and you know it is going to be hard on the team. You’ve done your best to get extra resources but they are rarely available in the present climate. You doubt there is going to be any kind of financial recognition for the extra effort. You are just going to have to ask your team to do their best, even though it mean lots of stress on them.

What do you do?

Well, first, share the news. As soon as you are clear yourself about what needs to be done, tell them. If you can, tell them why the decision was made. If you want them to stay motivated, you will need to do this with care, if you, yourself, don’t think it is a good decision. Telling them your own manager is crap is not going to inspire them – as their manager that is your problem. Ask for their ideas on how best they want to approach the job.

Be prepared to help. People remember the senior manager who, when necessary, was prepared to labour beside them over a hot photocopier or to stuff envelopes.

Be clever in how you share the work out; remember to be scrupulously fair. Don’t overload your best person. Stay flexible and caring but be realistic. Ask people if they can make special arrangements to allow them to stay on at work, exceptionally.

Don’t take their good will for granted. Say please and thank you when you should, and mean it. Make the environment as pleasant as you can. Be present and engaged with people as they work. Do not be the boss who slopes off site at 6, leaving the team to finish the work. Ship in the doughnuts and ice cream if you can and be prepared to get people lifts home after work, if necessary.

Share the praise when those up the line praise you for getting the job done. Make sure you mention the contribution your team made. Remember a good team reflects well on you as manager.

If you can’t give the team formal recognition for what they have done, then make it informal. May be this is the time to think about planning that evening out that you have all talked about for a while. When review time rolls round remember the contribution people made, when you under pressure and you needed them most. A good memory goes with being a good manager.

Wendy Smith is a personal coach and writer at Wisewolf Coaching. She is a qualified coach and a member of the Association for Coaching as well as being a member of the Institute of Consulting and a graduate of the Common Purpose leadership programme. She is the author of “The WiseWolf Job Search Pocket Book: How to Win Jobs and Influence Recruiters” as well as two novels and a number of articles on management and well-being. Her latest publication is a little eBook; “How to Get on With the Boss.”  You can contact Wendy at wendy@wisewolfcoaching.com

Values and Why They Are Important

This is first post in a short series on values, what are they, why are they important and how to understand your own values. Understanding your own values is key to leading happy and fulfilled life. Knowing them can guide you in deciding the work you want to do and even how you choose a life partner. Understanding them can help you deal with many of the challenges you will meet through life and how to make the best choice in many situations.

What Are Values?

Values are the important and lasting things you believe about life and the measures by which you will usually judge yourself and other things. When you live your life in accord with your values you will feel comfortable and at peace with yourself. When you don’t you may feel miserably, guilty or angry with what is preventing you from feeling fulfilled. Values are usually fairly stable throughout life. We learn them young from our parents and teachers and sometimes from out friend. But not all the values we learn young are helpful to us. Times change and for example the value that some people learned very young and associated with the roles of men and women may no longer be appropriate in the 21st century. When you understand your values you can begin to make choices about this you hold on to. Next, we’ll begin to look at how to determine what your real values are.

When you face an angry person at work!

When you face an angry person at work!

We all encounter anger sometimes and encountering angry people at work is particularly difficult. But, you can learn how to calm people down and defuse their anger. Knowing how to defuse anger helps you do your job better and look more competent. It helps you be a better manager.

It can be tempting to let your own emotions take over and become angry yourself. Confronting anger with anger doesn’t work. It just hypes things up which usually makes the other person more angry. Try to stay calm. That way you are more likely to be able to think clearly about the situation. Take some deep breaths to help reduce the tension you feel. If necessary, ask to take a short break and go for a walk. If you feel threatened by violence it is best to leave the situation, if you can, and seek help. If you don’t feel threatened, look objectively at why the person is angry. Probably, it has nothing to do with you and you didn’t cause the problem. Being able to distance yourself emotionally will help you think clearly about a solution.

You need to find out why they are angry. Encourage them to explain the cause of their anger. Listen carefully and don’t interrupt but use open questions to keep them going until you understand. Try to see things from their perspective. Sometimes people deal with distress and bad news by getting angry. If you understand that, you can distance yourself from the angry feelings and know that the anger is not about you. This should make it easier to help.

Respond calmly in a low tone and in a non-threatening way. This will encourage them to become calm. Don’t use generalizations and platitudes like, “I understand how you feel.” Be specific and empathetic – rephrase what they have told you but not thoughtlessly. Try to show, rather than say, that you understand. Show you are focussed on finding solutions and putting things right. If you have caused their distress, then apologize and show how you are going to remedy the situation. Don’t make excuses. Don’t be defensive – that tends to stimulate more anger. Focus on finding solutions and taking the first steps towards putting them into action.

Moderate anger can sometimes be dealt with by distracting people. Occasionally, this can be done with laughter but have a care. Humour at the wrong time can make things worse. It can be hard to get someone to change the subject if their anger is intense. Trying to do so may make them feel you are not taking them seriously which makes things worse.

Anger in a team at work can be incredibly disruptive. If you are a manager faced with a team member who gets angry easily, flag it up as an issue. Then offer to work with them to help them control their anger. You could try role play and practice dealing with angry customers, for example. You could also consider training for them in emotional intelligence, assertiveness and good communication skills. Encourage them to learn a simple relaxation technique to use when they feel stressed.

If you have to deal frequently with an angry person, afterwards, when they are calm, let them know how their anger makes you feel. Give your message assertively and calmly as you can. Don’t make accusations – just describe your feelings in simple terms.

We all face anger sometimes. The key is to learn how to deal with it calmly and with confidence. Find the cause and apologize if it is you at fault. Try, with them, to find a way to put things right. Treat an angry person with respect and focus on finding solutions.

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10801706_10205372103244677_2990750892488570962_nWendy Smith (formerly Wendy Mason) is  a life coach and writer committed to helping people be happy and fulfilled at home and at work. You can contact her at wendy@wisewolfcoaching.com

Are you a manager behaving badly?

6307954283_9fd65cd134_mAre your anxieties reducing the performance of those you work with?

I’ve been coaching and blogging about career development for a few years now. And there seem to be a number of recurring themes when people talk to me about happiness at work. The most common is “trouble” with boss.

Problems can arise for all kinds of reasons.

Sometimes the person talking to me has had a history of difficulties with other managers in the past. There may be something they can change in their approach to improve things.

Sometimes the person having the problems is in a job that isn’t the right fit and they need to consider a change.

Unfortunately, and far more frequently, the difficulties spring from the way in which a particular manager has been behaving.

Managers come in all kinds of flavours. Some find communicating with their teams easy. For others, it may be something at which they need to work. These days there is little excuse for not knowing that communication is key to good performance but you would be surprised how many managers choose not to hear the message.

Sadly, a small number of managers are out and out bullies and they cause much misery and distress. Far more common is a much more subtle effect. There are managers dealing with their personal challenges by acting unprofessionally in the workplace.

Some managers deal with trouble in their private life by bringing anger or depression into the office. Many seem quite clever at making sure it is only their juniors who suffer, while colleagues and those above see a happy, cooperative employee.

Managers may be insecure in their work role (fear of redundancy, for example). They may deal with their anxieties by undermining those who work for them. Heaven help the bright junior who might be a natural successor! But the whole team might suffer from their “control freakery” and anger – nothing is quite good enough.

Over time, a “boss” working out their own problems at work can cause havoc with their team’s performance. Everyone feels unhappy and stressed; valuable team members look for opportunities to move elsewhere and sick absence may rise.

As a manager, looking objectively at your own performance and admitting you are causing problems for the team can be hard.

It is wise for all manager to step back sometimes and reflect on their own performance. Think about how you behaved over the last week, the last month and the last year.

For example, when you think about your leadership or management style consider;

  • Have there been incidents you subsequently regretted?
  • Are there people on the team you fear may be better than you at the job?
  • Have you stopped seeing good people as an asset and do you now see them as a threat?
  • How happy are the people that work in your team?
  • How have you contributed to that happiness?

Think about how you would judge a colleague behaving as you have behaved. Would it be good for them, their team and the organization, in the long term? If the answer is no, then act now. Commit to making a change and, if you need help, there are lots of coaches like me around on LinkedIn.

All it takes is the courage to look honestly and objectively at what you have been doing and not make excuses for yourself. Takes action. You owe it to yourself and your team to make that change.

This post appeared first on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/you-manager-behaving-badly-wendy-mason

10801706_10205372103244677_2990750892488570962_nWendy Mason is life coach and writer committed to helping people be happy and fulfilled at home and at work. You can contact her at wendymason@wisewolfcoaching.com

Beware the Interview Bully!

bullying-2-300x208Beware the Interview Bully!

 Career Coach, Life Coach and Writer

As a career coach, I hear all kinds of stories about the whims, fancies and bad behaviour of employers/managers. Often, the lack of imagination or self-interest exhibited appalls me. Why having taken the trouble to seek out a good employee, would you not want to manage them in a way that allows them to give their best?

Unfortunately, employers/managers can be as troubled as the rest of us by lack of confidence or self-esteem and the need to prove our power at the expense of others.

Often, people find themselves working for a poor boss in a job they otherwise love that pays well. And advising them is one of the greatest challenges I face as a coach. Leaving a good, well-paid, job to face unemployment isn’t the first choice for anyone.

I do think, though, you should think carefully about taking a job for an employer when it has been clear at the interview that there are may be problems.

Some potential bosses behave so badly during the interview that I don’t understand why more candidates don’t walk out there and then.

I hear a lot of stories about interviewers performing dubiously. The interviewer who doesn’t listen to your answers, may be the least of the challenges. Questions can verge on the edge of illegal discrimination, sometimes crossing the line. I have had heard reports of questioning so insistent and aggressive, it amounted to bullying.

In my view, in those circumstances, not only don’t you take the job, it is reasonable to quit the interview at that point.

I understand that people may be desperate to find work. But a potential employer, who behaves badly at an interview, is unlikely to turn into a good boss once you start the job. Think carefully before you decide the package is so attractive, you will take a chance you may live to regret bitterly.

You might want to see also my post on the jealous boss at this link

I wish all those starting out on or a continuing a job search this week every success.

If you are thinking about coaching, and we coaches really can add value to your job search, I would love to talk to you.

Warm regards

Wendy
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Do you know a job seeker? Would you like to help them?

0992990009Do you know a job seeker? Would you like to help them?

This is a request for your help!

First, here is an extract from the introduction to my new job search pocket book. It is more of a work book really!

“So what is it that marks out the successful job seeker?

Successful job hunting today takes commitment, confidence, flexibility, resilience and technique. And you’ll find tips on all those things in what follows.

Commitment
You’ll need to commit time and energy to your job search. Many successful job seekers spend 36 to 40 hours a week looking for work. Sounds just like work doesn’t it? But keeping a regular routine and having structure pays great dividends.

Confidence
If you are not already a very confident person, or the experience that brings you here has knocked your confidence, the work we will do to help you understand and appreciate your past successes can help you to feel confident again.

Flexibility
Being willing to adapt and to accept change opens up all kinds of possibilities. This is certainly easier with more confidence. You’ll explore flexibly meeting the needs of a potential employer in the pages that follow.

Resilience
Resilience, like confidence, is something you may have to work hard at. Finding work may take longer than you expect and you will probably have to bounce back from some knocks on the way. You will be in good company, though. Lots of good people have suffered the same kind of knocks only to bounce back and be very successful at their next attempt, or the one after that.

Technique
If you have been out of the job market for a while, there will be new techniques to learn and some you need to refresh. From writing a modern CV to wowing them at the interview, all the tips are here.”

The little book I’ve produced is based mainly on the experience of my successful coaching clients.

I believe working through it really can make a difference for any job seeker. It is concise, practical and very inexpensive. That means that neither I, nor my publisher, have a huge budget to spend on publicity. So, I’m relying on you, dear readers, to pass the message onto anyone you know who is looking for work and could benefit from some useful tips.

You can find “The WiseWolf Job Search Pocket Book: How to Win Jobs and Influence Recruiters” on my Amazon page at this link; http://ow.ly/BRSAL . You can find out more about it on the publisher’s website http://bluebirdhousebooks.com .
Thank you for your support.

I wish all those starting out on or a continuing a job search this week every success.

If you are thinking about coaching, and we coaches really can add value to your job search, I would love to talk to you.

Warm regards

Wendy
wendymason@wisewolfcoaching.com
http://wisewolfcoaching.com
UK: +44 (0) 2081239146
US: +1 262 317 9016
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